Your Intimate Circle
August 27, 2008 – 7:28 amPosted Under: life
How do you determine who gets into your intimate circle of friends?
Bird and D-Nice Tie the Knot
August 27, 2008 – 7:11 am
They got engaged in August, and then in September they started making more appearances around the town, and in December it was still going strong (that says a lot for Hollywood) so the next obvious course of action is marriage. Right here in New Jersey this weekend Malinda Williams aka Bird of “Soulfood” fame and Rapper turned cutting edge photographer D-Nice aka Derrick Jones tied the knot. I was happy to see so many of her Soulfood cast members in attendance. They look REALLY happy! He’s happy with who he is and she’s happy with who he is–perfect couple!
Aquababie Handmade
August 26, 2008 – 8:05 amPosted Under: interviews, products
Sometimes you never know what people are up to, especially fellow bloggers. But I pride myself on being on the case. When I visited Aquababie’s site and she said that she had a new venture I wanted to interview her because I love supporting people! So, let me introduce her new venture Aquababie Handmade! Here’s what you’re about to venture into and much more…meaning don’t forget to check out the bath and body products and the gift sets!
Describe your passions about what you do.
I absolutely love creating with my hands. When I first began creating, a chord struck in me and I was instantly hooked. Now I stay up hours at a time totally caught up. I feel a little bit of me goes in every piece of jewelry or every scrub I make. Hopefully my passion for my art comes through in my work. The highest compliment to me is seeing a repeat customer or someone telling me that they love my work.
How did you become interested into bath and body? jewelry?
I’ve always been a hands-on type of girl. Growing up I asked for dolls, tea sets and chemistry sets. I can say that both my crafts started off as hobbies only. In reference to the bath products, I’ve always loved to indulge and pamper myself. I think most women do. And being the experimentalist I am, I decided to try my hand at making products for personal use. I found information online and I read books. I would give products to my friends and family. After a time, folk would ask me about selling the products. I considered if I really could do this and in 2002, my bath line Aqua Essentials was created. I created the blends myself by pouring through books about aromatherapy and its effect on the body, mind and spirit. That’s how I decided on the scents and it’s been full steam ahead since then.
The jewelry started as a personal challenge. I would go to fairs and festivals, always bringing home a little something. In 2004, I purchased the cutest memory wrap necklace. I got it home, looked at it and decided I was going to make one of my own. I took a visit to a local bead shop and I was immediately hooked. I would make pieces for my mom and myself. When folk began purchasing the pieces right from my neck, I thought I might have a little something going!
What was the impetus for the creation of your site?
I’ve been doing both my bath products and jewelry simultaneously since 2004, but I haven’t been able to have them on one site. Each one is different. With the bath products, they’re pretty constant. I have the same types of products. I’ve had an existing site since 2003. But the jewelry is totally different. Within a week, I might have produced several pieces of jewelry. I resorted to using my jewelry blog as a primary selling place. I realized earlier this year, I really needed more of a storefront website, where both aspects of my crafting life could be showcased equally. I also had to find a way where I could have the control to update the website as needed. I took it upon myself to redesign my website and the result is the recently relaunched Aquababie Handmade website.
How do you balance your creative side with the rest of your life?
Sometimes it can be tough to make sure I get to play with my crafts. I work full time as a chemist. I also teach yoga. Crafting acts as my relaxation. I try my hardest to interweave all aspects of my life together. While I’m at my regular job, I’m thinking about what I can do with something I was working on the night before. And if an idea pops into my head, I always write it down then and there. I’m always afraid I might lose it. And it also helps to have someone in your life who understands when you need to feed your creative monster.
What’s your creative process?
I have my own space in my home dedicated strictly to creation. I have specific areas in my studio for my jewelry and bath products. When I’m creating a new piece of jewelry, I try to think what type of woman would wear this. Would I wear it? Sometimes I will see some beads and instantly picture what I can do with them. Sometimes I buy what I’m drawn most to. They might just be sitting on my shelf until the moment is right. I’m a confessed beadaholic, so I have so much to choose from. I might string something, hold it up and and see it isn’t going where I thought. I just start over. It’s just part of my process. I also love finding something old and fabulous at a flea market or junk store, dismantling it and creates something fresh from it. Right now I’m also working with polymer clay which is opening up endless creative possibilities!
When I come up with the idea for a product or a new scent, it goes through some trial and error. For me this just like chemistry. In creating bath products, it helps to keep meticulous notes. I keep a binder full of my scents and product recipes, plus information for new things I would like to try. I have to try it out on myself first. I also solicit friends and family to be product testers and I seek honest feedback. That’s the only way I know my customers will be satisfied.
Lastly and the most important, I crank up my music and just have fun!
Don’t forget to visit Aquababie Handmade today. All visitors of Princess Dominique Dishes Pop Culture receive 10% off total purchase until September 30, 2008 by using code: AQUA.
Watch Your Flippin’ Mouth Jack!
August 23, 2008 – 6:49 pmPosted Under: relationships
I was at TJ’s blog and read her post about making threats and had to agree with her. You can’t go around in a marriage tossing the D word (divorce) around if you don’t mean it. Why would you do that? To state your case? To emphasize how upset you are or do you really want one? I don’t like to air dirty laundry but in my last serious relationship I was told to “get out!” and I left, bounced, didn’t look back, broke off all communication. The difference between me and somebody else is, somebody else might sit around and convince you to change your mind, but if I am sensing that what you say is what you really want, guess what? Bye. I’m not begging for love or attention. On the flip side, I don’t understand how people plot to kill off a spouse, to collect insurance money and all that jive. I’m not murdering anybody. If you don’t want me, Sionara, Jack! I’m not getting locked up because you have a wandering set of eyes or because your junk can’t remember where home is. If I’m not wanted, guess what? *lol* I have goals and aspirations and things I still desire to accomplish in life and I can easily be off doing them. In relationships you have to say what you mean and mean what you say. If you need to calm down, go take a walk, fly a kite, eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and reminisce about your childhood, but don’t come back after the fact saying you didn’t mean it.
A Caribbean Original
August 22, 2008 – 4:33 pmPosted Under: life
First things first. It’s “you’re” I know that. I didn’t make the banner but that’s not what this post is about. I pride myself on being an original. I love thinking off the cuff and people often ask me how I do “all” the things I’m doing. They know I work hard to achieve what I have thusfar. I know I work hard. One thing I’ve learned though is that you can’t jerk people. Meaning you can’t use them to your own end. This is a pointed statement.
“Your business will not turn a profit if you jerk me. Everything will crumble if you don’t pay me what you owe. Every idea you have will fizzle, no matter how many people you bring on board. Trust you don’t want to see the press release.”
I don’t fight my own battles. I just had to put that out there in the universe. Carry on.
