10 Surprising Health Benefits of Sex

April 20, 2008 – 5:21 pm

Posted Under: random, sex

The health benefits of sex extend well beyond the bedroom. Turns out sex is good for you in ways you may never have imagined.

When you’re in the mood, it’s a sure bet that the last thing on your mind is boosting your immune system or maintaining a healthy weight. Yet good sex offers those health benefits and more.

That’s a surprise to many people, says Joy Davidson, PhD, a New York psychologist and sex therapist. “Of course, sex is everywhere in the media,” she says. “But the idea that we are vital, sexual creatures is still looked at in some cases with disgust or in other cases a bit of embarrassment. So to really take a look at how our sexuality adds to our life and enhances our life and our health, both physical and psychological, is eye-opening for many people.”

Sex does a body good in a number of ways, according to Davidson and other experts. The benefits aren’t just anecdotal or hearsay — each of these 10 health benefits of sex is backed by scientific scrutiny.

Among the benefits of healthy loving in a relationship:

1. Sex Relieves Stress

A big health benefit of sex is lower blood pressure and overall stress reduction, according to researchers from Scotland who reported their findings in the journal Biological Psychology. They studied 24 women and 22 men who kept records of their sexual activity. Then the researchers subjected them to stressful situations — such as speaking in public and doing verbal arithmetic — and noted their blood pressure response to stress.

Those who had intercourse had better responses to stress than those who engaged in other sexual behaviors or abstained.

Another study published in the same journal found that frequent intercourse was associated with lower diastolic blood pressure in cohabiting participants. Yet other research found a link between partner hugs and lower blood pressure in women.

2. Sex Boosts Immunity

Good sexual health may mean better physical health. Having sex once or twice a week has been linked with higher levels of an antibody called immunoglobulin A or IgA, which can protect you from getting colds and other infections. Scientists at Wilkes University in Wilkes-Barre, Pa., took samples of saliva, which contain IgA, from 112 college students who reported the frequency of sex they had.

Those in the “frequent” group — once or twice a week — had higher levels of IgA than those in the other three groups — who reported being abstinent, having sex less than once a week, or having it very often, three or more times weekly.

3. Sex Burns Calories

Thirty minutes of sex burns 85 calories or more. It may not sound like much, but it adds up: 42 half-hour sessions will burn 3,570 calories, more than enough to lose a pound. Doubling up, you could drop that pound in 21 hour-long sessions.

“Sex is a great mode of exercise,” says Patti Britton, PhD, a Los Angeles sexologist and president of the American Association of Sexuality Educators and Therapists. It takes work, from both a physical and psychological perspective, to do it well, she says.

4. Sex Improves Cardiovascular Health

While some older folks may worry that the efforts expended during sex could cause a stroke, that’s not so, according to researchers from England. In a study published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, scientists found frequency of sex was not associated with stroke in the 914 men they followed for 20 years.

And the heart health benefits of sex don’t end there. The researchers also found that having sex twice or more a week reduced the risk of fatal heart attack by half for the men, compared with those who had sex less than once a month.

5. Sex Boosts Self-Esteem

Boosting self-esteem was one of 237 reasons people have sex, collected by University of Texas researchers and published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior.

That finding makes sense to Gina Ogden, PhD, a sex therapist and marriage and family therapist in Cambridge, Mass., although she finds that those who already have self-esteem say they sometimes have sex to feel even better. “One of the reasons people say they have sex is to feel good about themselves,” she tells WebMD. “Great sex begins with self-esteem, and it raises it. If the sex is loving, connected, and what you want, it raises it.”

6. Sex Improves Intimacy

Having sex and orgasms increases levels of the hormone oxytocin, the so-called love hormone, which helps us bond and build trust. Researchers from the University of Pittsburgh and the University of North Carolina evaluated 59 premenopausal women before and after warm contact with their husbands and partners ending with hugs. They found that the more contact, the higher the oxytocin levels.

“Oxytocin allows us to feel the urge to nurture and to bond,” Britton says.

Higher oxytocin has also been linked with a feeling of generosity. So if you’re feeling suddenly more generous toward your partner than usual, credit the love hormone.

7. Sex Reduces Pain

As the hormone oxytocin surges, endorphins increase, and pain declines. So if your headache, arthritis pain, or PMS symptoms seem to improve after sex, you can thank those higher oxytocin levels.

In a study published in the Bulletin of Experimental Biology and Medicine, 48 volunteers who inhaled oxytocin vapor and then had their fingers pricked lowered their pain threshold by more than half.

8. Sex Reduces Prostate Cancer Risk

Frequent ejaculations, especially in 20-something men, may reduce the risk of prostate cancer later in life, Australian researchers reported in the British Journal of Urology International. When they followed men diagnosed with prostate cancer and those without, they found no association of prostate cancer with the number of sexual partners as the men reached their 30s, 40s, and 50s.

But they found men who had five or more ejaculations weekly while in their 20s reduced their risk of getting prostate cancer later by a third.

Another study, reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association, found that frequent ejaculations, 21 or more a month, were linked to lower prostate cancer risk in older men, as well, compared with less frequent ejaculations of four to seven monthly.

9. Sex Strengthens Pelvic Floor Muscles

For women, doing a few pelvic floor muscle exercises known as Kegels during sex offers a couple of benefits. You will enjoy more pleasure, and you’ll also strengthen the area and help to minimize the risk of incontinence later in life.

To do a basic Kegel exercise, tighten the muscles of your pelvic floor, as if you’re trying to stop the flow of urine. Count to three, then release.

10. Sex Helps You Sleep Better

The oxytocin released during orgasm also promotes sleep, according to research.

And getting enough sleep has been linked with a host of other good things, such as maintaining a healthy weight and blood pressure. Something to think about, especially if you’ve been wondering why your guy can be active one minute and snoring the next.

Source: WebMD




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Kristin Davis’ Reps Say There is No Sex Tape!

March 18, 2008 – 9:05 am

Posted Under: celebs, sex

Kristin Davis

People who aren’t getting any play leak a sex tape. It’s become as passe as a press release. Really. Kristin Davis is the star of a homemade sex tape. Her reps are saying there is no sex tape and if there is one it is not their client starring in it. We haven’t heard from Kristin Davis since Sex and the City. The photo stills that are floating around the internet were reportedly taken from a video showing Kristin cavorting with an unknown man.

Meanwhile, adult movie star Ron Jeremy says,

“Celebrities rely on sex tapes to revive their declining careers.” He said: “I love the excuse they use - ‘Oh, I don’t know how they got a hold of it!’ It’s such a big joke now. Any celebrity that is not doing so good, they jump by having a good sex scandal.”

Okay, and there you have it. Do you believe there is a sex tape? Do you care?




Sexual Compatibility - Are You Compatible? Take the Test

January 22, 2008 – 5:22 pm

Posted Under: life, sex

Sexual Compatibility - Are You Compatible? Take the Test

I boosted these panties from Chevonne. *lol*

I took the Do you have a Sexless Relationship survey. I scored a 47. He scored a 49. Here is what our scores say about us…

43-50 points: You have a robust erotic and passionate sexual relationship . Congratulations, although you probably don’t need any pats on the back from us. Your relationship, itself, is the best reinforcement for keeping it in high gear. But don’t get complacent and don’t take things for granted. You need to keep growing to keep sex and intimacy alive in long-term relationships. Take your pick from any one of our “Tips” and use it to deepen your connection with your partner.

The website says that 5027 people have taken the survey. Here are the overall statistics. Thankfully We’re in the 8%.

15% Sex is Dead
33% Sex is comatose and in danger of dying
27% Sex is asleep and needs a wake-up call
17% Sex is alive and well
8% You have a robust erotic and passionate sexual relationship

Take the test and see what you score at: http://www.passionatemarriage.com/cgi-bin/sexless_survey.pl
Click here for their 6 Tips to Creating a More Passionate Relationship section.


10 Natural Aphrodisiacs for Love

September 19, 2007 – 8:51 am

Posted Under: food, sex

10 Natural Aphrodisiacs for Love

What is an aphrodisiac? Well, it can be a drug, scent, food, drink or device that some claim (usually those who market them) may kindle or increase sexual desire. Basically, aphrodisiacs are products that enhance sexual performance.

But for your wallet’s sake, today’s sex tip includes natural aphrodisiacs; in other words, stuff that you would either have around the house anyway, or natural ingredients that don’t require you to skip around the room on one foot while chanting ancient Chinese proverbs.

Now before I delve into all the yummy stuff that may cause your penis to remain erect for hours on end, keep in mind that the FDA (Food & Drug Administration) declares that there’s no scientific evidence whatsoever that proves that aphrodisiacs can treat sexual drawbacks. And to that I say, the mind is a very powerful thing. If it was only based on folklore, then how come so many people believe it to be so? Because our brains are the greatest sex organs we have, and food, scents and drinks are as pleasant to the senses as they are to the brain.

Fiery Foods for Foreplay

* Spices: Chili, curry and all those sweat-inducing foods are believed to have aphrodisiacal effects because they produce results much like sex would. Think about it; spicy foods increase our heart rate and cause us to perspire. So cook up some curry chicken and then give her a “spicy meatball” of your own.

* Oysters: Wow, I know you’re as surprised to see this one on the list as I am (yeah, right). We all know that oysters have been esteemed as sex aids for ages. Why? Well, it’s possible that it’s because of diets that were nutritionally deficient in zinc in the days of horse carriages and lasting marriages. People would eat oysters and since their overall health would improve, it would lead to an increased sex drive. So start shucking and don’t stop till you feel it move.

* Wasabi (horseradish): While some people believe that sushi has aphrodisiacal effects all on its own, my Japanese friends let me in on a little secret. Apparently, that green stuff that comes with it (wasabi, or horseradish) is what’ll really get your twig and berries ripe and ready. So the next time you go out for sushi, ask for some extra wasabi; it’s a kick and will make your eyes tear, but you can make your gal’s eyes tear when you take her home and show her Wasaaaaaaabi.

* Caviar: That’s right; fish eggs contain a large amount of beneficial vitamins. They are rich in phosphorus and are very nourishing to nerve cells. Their apparent aphrodisiacal powers are reinforced by vodka. So get yourself into Absolut shape for the night.


Divine Drugs

* Ginseng: The word ginseng means “man root.” So it’s likely that ginseng gained its popularity as a sexually enhancing herb via its similarity to the male, um, organ. While it is true that the root has a mild stimulating effect, like caffeine, there is no solid evidence that ginseng has an effect on human sexuality. But what the heck — increase your energy, and your sex life will follow suit.

* Yohimbine: Taken from the bark of an African tree, yohimbine is believed to work by stimulating the nerve centers in the spine that control erection. Although even the FDA found its studies on animals to be positive, there is still no scientific proof that yohimbine works on human beings. But some gentlemen swear by yohimbine, and like I always say: If it’s good for the goose, then slip on a condom and give it to the gander.

* Spanish fly: We have all heard about this little fly that can bring us to immeasurable sexual heights, but do you really know what Spanish fly is? It’s a bright green blister beetle from Southern Europe. The fly, or cantharis, is made from dried beetle remains and can be one of the most dangerous aphrodisiacs on the market. The sexual excitement initializes from the irritation to the urinary and genital tracts and results in a rush of blood to the sex organs. My suggestion: Keep away from The Fly.

Sexual Scents

* Vanilla: Because of its sweet, welcoming odor, it has a euphoric effect and can be used at will. If consumed, vanilla combats sexual debilitation and improves upon the central nervous system. Its odor implicitly acts upon sexual stimulation in both men and women . So add a few drops of vanilla essence to your bath and set the sensual mood for what’s to come (pun fully intended).

* Patchouli: This scent is believed to awaken and provoke sexual energy. If you’d like to try its aphrodisiacal powers, purchase patchouli in the form of incense. And while you’re at it, play some erotic music to add to the ambiance.

* Musk: Believe it or not, many experts believe that musk closely resembles the smell of testosterone (human pheromones), the male sex hormone. Now if you smell it and like it, that doesn’t mean you want to start playing for the other team. What you should be concerned with is her nose and what she likes. So bust out the musk and fill the room with man smell.

More to Come

* Yes, there are a multitude of other natural aphrodisiacs, but as I mentioned before, the most sexual aphrodisiac is the one between your ears. If you have the ability to sex up her mind with your own, you’ll have her begging for you to probe her in no time flat. Women love sensual as well as intellectual stimulation, so separate the boys from the men and let her know that you are da man!

* All that having been said, maybe you should break out the caviar and vodka and feed her slowly. Then perhaps you should add some ginseng to your diet for prosperity. And finally, light up some patchouli incense and get the night off to a banging start.

* And remember: Always protect your penile pal. Until next time, break out the food, spices and scents and discover the beauty of giving your woman all kinds of intense sexual desires with aphrodisiacs.

Source: Askmen.com


Eva Pigford Sex Tape

July 25, 2007 – 8:58 am

Posted Under: celebs, gossip, sex

Eva Pigford Sex Tape Rumors

Eva Pigford Sex Tape. If it’s not Paris, it’s Miss New Jersey and the blackmail pictures and now they claim it’s Eva Pigford in a raunchy video tape. *sigh*

“Yesterday a gentleman (and we use that term very loosely) reached out to MediaTakeOut.com trying to be sell us an explicit tape of model Eva Pigford. According to the man, he and Eva were in a relationship before she got on America’s Next Top Model. And he claims to have videotape footage of some of their most intimate moments.” - Media Take Out

I mean, whoa, is everybody releasing a sex tape? Maybe I should release a blog tape. You know, depicting me blogging at unGodly hours of the night instead of sleeping and then leak it to the internet so that the rags can pick up on the story and relaunch my writing career. Yeah, right.



So I set out to do some research, you know, ’cause I’m bored *lol* and I found a site that claims her response to the rumors were clear and concise:

“THE PHOTOS OF ‘EVA’ THAT HAVE BEEN LEAKED ONTO THE INTERNET ARE NOT OF EVA AT ALL. WE DON’T KNOW WHO THE YOUNG LADY IN THE PHOTOS IS. UNDERSTAND THAT THE PHOTOS ARE NOT EVA PIGFORD! NO FURTHER ANSWERS WILL BE GIVEN TO THIS RUMOR. THANK YOU!”

They said that was on her Myspace page. I’m her “friend” on Myspace and don’t see it on the site anywhere. Reports also claim the woman in the video (which I refuse to link here) is actually the Eva-look-a-like, Gemini-an adult film star. I guess the key is DO NOT MAKE SEX TAPES BECAUSE ONE DAY YOU MAY BECOME FAMOUS! And if you don’t make tapes then you know it’s a lie when rumors like this surface.