How Can I Start the Healing After a Fight?
February 3, 2008 – 4:25 pmPosted Under: advice
Princess Dominique:
Whenever I’ve gotten into an argument with my wife or girlfriend, I found myself being very soft spoken. Until of course a line is crossed and a magic word is said with the obvious intent to take the argument to another level. It’s almost like provoking for the sake of provoking. How does a man acknowledge anger besides doing it a non-judgmental fashion which can only help to diffuse the situation so that a rational conversation can begin. After all, it takes 2 to tango but it won’t work if only one of you is trying to reach a resolution to the matter. What can a guy do to talk to his lady so that the healing process can begin? - Anonymous
Dear Anonymous:
In happy times you need to create rules of how you will handle a disagreement, argument or falling out. The worse time to try to figure out how to handle it is “during” the altercation. Sit your partner down and come to an agreement of how thing will get resolved ie. never go to bed angry, designate 2 chairs that face each other as the resolution spot, allow a cooling off period, define the length of the cooling down period, does the cooling down period include leaving the house? Once you both agree to the terms, when you have a disagreement–do what you agreed on and move your love forward.
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