Juanita Bynum Needs The Plural Thing

Posted Under: love, men, relationships, women

When husbands attack, wives need the Word of God and a relationship book rooted in the Word. Juanita Bynum needs The Plural Thing: Spiritually Preparing for Your Soul Mate. I’m not saying that she’s not anointed and that God doesn’t use her because He has and He does. Sometimes however, we get new or fresh revelation from others who God has appointed and are able to see the picture clearly when God uses someone else because we aren’t letting the focus be about us “being used” by God.

When Juanita reported to the police that her loving husband Thomas Weeks III, “choked her, pushed her down, kicked her and stomped her in the Renaissance parking lot,” you would never think that someone God has sent you would do something like that. I don’t know all of the details, but it was 4 a.m. and of course it was expected that no one would be around. What would have happened to her if the bellman wasn’t available or didn’t hear her cries and pleas? Was he provoked? I wasn’t there and care not to speculate.

I’m not being facetious. The Plural Thing has assisted so many single men and women make the transition from single to married “to the right partner” that you’ll read it and wonder why you’ve scarcely heard about it. People don’t want to talk about bad relationships, domestic violence, having an affair or breaking off an affair. Bookstores don’t make money on “how to stay together” books and “be happy” books, that’s why the self-help section is so huge. They keep people broken so that they’ll be coming back over and over again to try and fix what is broken. I liken it to going to a crooked mechanic who looks under your hood, unlatches something, tells you that your car is fine knowing that because of what he’s done, or the information that he’s withheld that you’ll have to come back to him and pay him more money. We’ve got to do better.

The devil doesn’t mind us having big lavish weddings that we still have to pay for three and four years after the fact, but if he can keep the friction there, and the single mindset there–then we’ll never really meld, join or come together with our spouse. We’ll never feel like we can be who we want to be or need to be with or for them because they are threatened by our fame or a host of other issues that the first few years of marriage doesn’t fully uncover until something explosive like the Juanita Bynum incident happens.

I’m familiar with 1 Timothy 3:1

“This is a faithful saying: If a man desires the position of a bishop, he desires a good work. 2 A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior, hospitable, able to teach; 3 not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for money, F3 but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous; 4 one who rules his own house well, having his children in submission with all reverence 5 (for if a man does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of God?); 6 not a novice, lest being puffed up with pride he fall into the same condemnation as the devil. 7 Moreover he must have a good testimony among those who are outside, lest he fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.”

How does that play into the entire scheme of things? Should they have been married according to the Word? Can we make something that wasn’t supposed to ever be work? Or when things like this happen is it because of what we have done that was out of order? I’m not guessing, I’m just asking questions here because I’ve been through my own situations too. Time will tell.

But as soon as I locate her address I’ll send her a copy of The Plural Thing and him too. This kind of Christian love has got to stop and we have to stop making excuses and picking mates that are pleasing to our EYE and find someone God has hand-picked to compliment and edify our SPIRIT.

They’re looking for her husband Thomas Weeks III as I type this. Jail is certain. It’s tragic to be that prominent and have your relationship exposed, but if this was an ongoing occurrence then it needed to be exposed. Bookmark this page and I’ll update this when I find out more information.

Update: Juanita Bynum will file charges against husband Thomas Weeks III

Update: Bishop Thomas Weeks Charged with Felony for Juanita Bynum Assault

Update: Juanita Bynum’s Husband Thomas Weeks III Surrenders

Update: Juanita Bynum’s Husband Thomas Weeks III Released

Update: Bishop Thomas Weeks III Told of Marital Woes with Juanita Bynum

Update: Turmoil to Blame for Bynum Incident, Bishop Thomas Weeks Seeks Donations

Update: Bishop Weeks Blames the Devil for Beating Juanita Bynum

Update: The Princess Participates in What About Our Daughters Hot Topic Discussion About the Juanita Bynum Incident

Update: Fox 5 Says Bishop Thomas Weeks Faced Financial Troubles Before Alleged Attack

Update: Apostle Brian S. Lewis Rebukes Juanita Bynum, Bishop Thomas Weeks and Paula White

Update: More Juanita Bynum Thomas Weeks III News

Update: Juanita Bynum Speaks (click to view video of Juanita Bynum’s press conference)

Update: Bishop Thomas Weeks III Court Date Postponed

Update: Juanita Bynum Needs The Plural Thing

Update: Evangelist Juanita Bynum Files for Divorce

Update: Juanita Bynum on Tom Joyner / Bishop Weeks to Contest Divorce

Update: Bishop Thomas Weeks III Breaks Silence and Tells His Side of the Story

Update: Bishop Thomas Weeks III Says It’s a New Day at BishopWeeks.com Everything Must Go!

Update: Juanita Bynum Live with Star Jones!

Update: Juanita Bynum: A Minister’s Public Lesson on Domestic Violence

Update: Juanita Bynum Live On Good Morning America

Update:Bishop Thomas Weeks III Files Answer in Divore Denies He Abused Juanita Bynum

Update: Juanita Bynum May Lose 6748 Square Foot Home in Georgia

Update: Juanita Bynum Pays Over 32k in Property Taxes

Update: Juanita Bynum Passion Unplugged in Stores Now

Update: Juanita Bynum Says Her Life Was in Turmoil Before the Attack

Update: Juanita Bynum ESSENCE Interview Excerpts

Update: Bishop Thomas Weeks Calls Juanita Bynum a Liar

Update: Bishop Thomas Weeks III Said The Time Has Come

Update: Bishop Thomas Weeks II and Juanita Bynum on the Morning Shows

Update: Will Juanita Bynum and Bishop Thomas Weeks Reconcile? 5 Signs of When to End a Relationship

Update: Junita Bynum Reconciles with Husband Bishop Thomas Weeks III

Update: Juanita Bynum Denies Outrageous Reconciliation Reports, Weeks Does Too

Update: Dr. Juanita Bynum joins Judge Lynn Toler as the New Counselor on Divorce Court

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